The Life of James West Conlon Jr.
James W. Conlon, Jr., 64, of Metuchen, New Jersey, died Oct0ber 31 st , 2023 at his home in Bel Air,
Maryland with his family and friends at his side.
Jim was born April 18, 1959. He grew up in Metuchen, NJ where he attended St. Joseph’s High School,
then went on to receive his Bachelor of Science from New Jersey Institute of Technology (NJIT). Upon
graduating, Jim went to work for the Department of Defense, US Army as a civilian at Fort Monmouth,
NJ. Jim was active in the Emergency Services community as an EMS instructor, EMS volunteer on the
Metuchen First Aid Squad, and helped to establish the Knights of Life, a motorcycle club with
membership by medical support personnel. Jim and his family relocated to Bel Air, MD., in 2011 when
Fort Monmouth closed. Up until his death, Jim was working at the Aberdeen Proving Grounds, where he
proudly worked for the US Army for over 40 years. He was also an avid woodturner and member of the
Baltimore Area Turners.
Jim is survived by his wife of 30 years, Wendy, his daughter Ashley (29) and his son James (25). He is
also survived by his three sisters, brother- and sister-in-law, and three nieces. As well as the numerous
young people he called his “adopted kids”. He is pre-deceased by his mother and father.
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2023.11.03
Mentor and friend
Jim was a mentor and a great co-worker. His for wealth of knowledge was gold . I cherished our conversations about work and also about his passions (monster truck, cycling , penturners) but most of all his family. I am so fortunate that I had 9 years working with Jim and will cherish the custome made pen he made for my wife as an anniversary gift Jim you will never be forgotten and will alwayls be in our hearts .
2023.11.03
A Valued Member
Jim was a long time, valued member of the Baltimore Area Turners, our local woodturning club. He was one of our most reliable members, always showing up for and contributing to our monthly meetings. When we would have offsite demonstrations, Jim could always be counted on to be the first to volunteer to transport gear, assist with setup and takedown, and be certain everything was in its' place before leaving.
Jim was an important part of the club, and he will be missed. Our condolences to his family.
2023.11.06
Inspiration and Mentor
Jim was a great friend through the woodturners group, and was both a mentor to me, but also a source of inspiration and positive influence to my daughter who joined when she was quite young. He guided her through techniques and topics, and most recently chatted with her during the external woodworking show. She mentioned she recently remembered his compliments and encouragement and was also quite saddened at his passing. I deeply appreciate and am grateful for his friendship, and for his service to our country.
2023.11.25
From Metuchen First Aid Squad (
Jim was a member of Metuchen EMS from May 1981 until November 1993. There are only 3 active members remaining from Jim's time with the squad, but we all remember him fondly and the unique persepective he brought to our organization.
We offer our condolences to his family, and we say thankyou to them for sharing him with us. As all volunteer families know, sometimes the famliy comes second.
2023.11.26
Condolences to the Conlon Family
I am so sorry to learn of Jim's passing. I had lost touch with Jim for a few years and had reached out a few months ago vis MS Teams at work. He wrote me back saying he was on long term sick leave due to cancer and I never heard back from him again. I have a lot of fond memories of Jim from Ft Monmouth, I met him in 1992 and always remember him being quiet but had a wicked sense of humor, but always a good person and really cared about his family and friends. I remember meeting his wife Wendy and daughter Ashley years ago, what a wonderful family he has. I send my condolences out to the Conlon family on their loss.